Saturday, February 27

Weekend In Photos:

Things that make me terribly happy:
My son after a bath in his frog towel. We have officially "sleep trained" our son. Since he was born we would rock him until he fell asleep after he had his nightly bottle, and this technique worked perfectly fine until about a month ago when he wised up and realized he HATED bed time and protested our bed time technique, waking up right as we laid him in bed each time (we literally rocked him for 4 hours one night). We then decided to be the mean parents we are and turn off the baby monitors-which resulted in a 2 hour scream fest and then 2 more nights of relatively less screaming until he realized that after his bottle, he would be placed in his bed and no one was coming back in to rock him
FOR FOUR HOURS so GO TO BED!
It's amazing how awesome he's sleeping now!

I enjoyed a sabbath of rest & breakfast Sunday
with my two fav. guys:
I shot a roll of b&w with Nicky, my fellow Mamiya loving-photographer-friend
{who is fab-ulous!}
I came home early from my Friday night-girls night
(so I would be rested for my Saturday morning run)
and was greeted with a wonderful candle lit pasta dinner and a sleeping baby.
There's really nothing better. Dustin grabbed the camera and asked me to pose.
It sure feels nice wearing the clothes I want to these days-but mostly, it feels good
that my husband notices my hard work!
Last Friday, Conrad spent the afternoon at the park
with his buddies Avery & Pyper.
He really was happy about it despite the face he made
while being pushed on the swing.
Red Rock run-8 miles (of hell):
(photo taken before the run from hell)
{from L to R: Me, Britney, Jessica, Candice, Amy & Grant}

Me after the run: "The whole run I kept thinking, Whose idea was it to run 8 miles in the wind, rain and cold at Red Rock?"

We were literally the ONLY people running that day, (besides 3 other idiots we saw that day! We didn't see a single biker either!) We all had a crappy run, but we were glad it was over and we are SO pumped for next weekend!
Training with these crazy fools the last 9 weeks has been such a joy for me!

How was your weekend?

Friday, February 26

Weekly Surf:

This week I ran 5 miles with Jessica-and didn't stop once. I felt accomplished as we ran side by side. Last week on this exact trail, I stopped several times as we ran up Horizon Ridge. It feels good to be getting better every week. I'm almost there! It wasn't cold enough for my gloves but they're cute, so they deserved a photo.
We found a heart shaped blueberry:
I got some kisses:
Last night during his bath he laughed so hard he threw up his dinner.
This age is so fun!

Hope you all have a wonderful weekend!

people of Haiti who inspire me


He is one of my fav photographers.
I especially loved these engagement photos he shot.

will love


what a beautiful jacket for a bride

I hope the bean is a girl so Auntie Chelsea can
spoil her with cute skirts!

Don't forget to enter my give-a-way

Tuesday, February 23

Monday, February 22

thoughts on running:


In 2 weeks, I will be running my first half marathon.

{the gorgeous Red Rock}

When I started training (6 weeks ago) I really didn't know how to run. I dabbled in running, but had no idea what it took to run and actually enjoy it. The trail that I would usually run before I trained was a 6 mile trail (3 miles both ways). I would run it and stop, take breaks, and give up, get cramps and I always put too many days between my runs so it was almost like I was starting from scratch each time. I wasn't consistent. I've had a few people ask me recently what the secret is to running, and I have a few tib bits that I've learned from the awesome girls who have trained me! (LOVE you girls!)

1- I couldn't have trained for this marathon if I didn't have support. I have 4 girls who have rallied beside me, pushed me, encouraged me, helped me set goals, have seen me through frustrating runs, and seen me through tearful celebratory runs. I could never have done this without them. At least twice a week for my long runs, I run with one of the 4 girls and it has been incredible. I feel like everything I know about running, I've learned from them.

{This was a basket filled with healthy treats that was left on my door step with a little note that read
"Only 6 weeks left! You ca do this!" Little words of encouragement can go a long way to
help you stick to the goal and not give up!}

2- What you eat determines how you run. It's almost the most important thing. What you put into your body is what you will get out of it. This has been something that has taught me great discipline knowing that I'm sacrificing the pleasure of enjoying junk, so my body has the right fuel it needs to run. (before a long run, I eat a cup of raw oat meal with fresh blue berries, and drink a cup of green tea. I eat 2 hours before I run. I usually run on a relatively empty stomach.) And don't forget to eat enough.

3- Rest. This has also been an area where I've had to learn discipline to go to bed at a normal hour. This also means not running long runs back to back. (I ran 8 miles on Saturday and the very next day ran 6 miles (which was bad!) Your body needs rest! I planned to only run 3 miles that day, but felt good so I kept going! I ended up passed out on the couch the whole rest of the day because I didn't rest my muscles and I was literally unable to move.) This is when following my running schedule comes into play!

4- Stop saying "I'm just not a runner." Candice really taught that just as soccer is a sport, running is a sport, and you have to practice if you want to get good at it. The more you run, the better you will get at it, and the better you will get at dealing with cramps, and working through exhaustion and fatigue. I about died the first time we all ran together. After the 3rd mile, I was almost in tears. I hadn't pushed my body up a hill since high school and these girls were doing it with such grace and ease. It was so frustrating! But now, I know how to run! Every week I'm getting better because I'm practicing. I'm training my body to get used to how it feels to run up hills, something I couldn't do 6 months ago.

5- It's mental. Jessica and I were running a few weekends back and she had an awful cramp and we still had 3 miles to go of the 8 we did that day until we were done. I kept telling her to push the pain out of her head and ignore it, to breath through. We've all had to give each other pep talks through hard runs. I've had to repeat phrases to myself like "You're strong," & "it will get easier." If you dwell on how bad your run is sucking, you'll give up easier. Don't focus on the pain.

6- Don't compare yourself. I usually stay a good distance behind the girls. They've been "practicing" longer than I have, and they have faster paces. If I tried to push myself to run alongside Candice, Jessica or Amy who have like 7 minute a mile paces, I would lose my gas right a way. Don't compare yourself to others and be comfortable at your current pace until you've had more "practice."

7- Get the right gear. Go to a running store, get fitted for the right shoes, and get some advice. I was shocked to realize that you're supposed to get new shoes every 200 miles. I couldn't understand why my big toe kept feeling like there was a nail in it every time i ran, until I went to a running store and realized my shoes (that looked perfectly new and cost my mom more money than I want to admit) were falling apart. Get the right shoes. Anytime I run further than 4 miles, my right arch hurts so bad I can barely go on. So I went to the running store and got an awesome insole for my right foot and it makes a world of difference.

8- Don't listen to the nay sayers- YOU are capable of much more than you think. EVERYONE told me Red Rock was terribly difficult, but I'm beginning to think that maybe it was horribly difficult because they didn't actually train on it, which made their experience horrible.

I was really scared of running Red Rock in the beginning, I even psyched myself out a few times and tried to back out (but my support team wouldn't let me!) The key that has given me the confidence to know that I can run this course is that by the time race day comes, I will have already trained on the course 3 times. I'm not going to be shocked by the hills and I will know exactly where the most difficult parts are. Training on the course has taken so much of the anxiety away that I formerly felt. I was told by several people how difficult the course was, so I told myself I wasn't "fit" or "good enough" or was too "wimpy" to run it when in actuality, it's not that scary at all.

I will say though that the first time i ran Red Rock, I got to mile 2 and was contemplating turning my butt right back around and sitting in the car until everyone was done. The first time I ran it I was hating life, Grant wanted to put a bullet through his knee, and Jessica cried. We all had a rough time the first time. But when you have an awesome run, the feeling you get afterwards is like nothing else on earth. We ran 8 miles on a beautiful trail close to Boulder City on day (this was the best run of my life). It was raining the whole run, cloudy, beautiful and I felt like I could just go on forever. I remember thinking "I hope heaven is like this." It was incredible and such a joy to run that day. Theres nothing like a good run.

I've learned so much in the last few months about conditioning my body. Working towards this goal has giving me such a feeling of accomplishment. The biggest thing that I am taking away in all of my training is the friendships I've made. That is the most beautiful part of the whole thing.

I can't wait to conquer Red Rock! I'm sooo excited!

Sunday, February 21

Single mom for a weekend



This weekend was a bit lonely without my husband around. I got little sleep, and his weekend away was not exactly the "slumber party" by myself that I planned it would be (of watching whatever TV i wanted, taking endless bubble baths and reading all night long!) Dustin was in Denver at an Engineers conference for 3 days, which left me on full time baby duty!

I kept saying to myself this weekend "Thank God I'm not doing this alone!!" and "I don't know how single mothers do it." and "I have so much respect for single moms!" and I REALLY do. My mom was a single mom for a long time and I really commend all of those moms out there doing it! It's SO hard to do on your own, and I only got a tiny glimpse of it.
Single moms out there, you are my heros!

Usually at night if I'm I'm in the middle of a relaxing hot bath sipping my sleepy tea and reading a book and Conrad decided to wake up, Dustin takes care of it. But just imagine for a moment how annoying it would be to hear the baby start to cry as you're amerced in a hot bath and you're the only one home! Ugh! It's not cool at all.

My mom came over on Saturday at 7 so I could go run at Red Rock. I knew I wouldn't be home until close to ten and once I was home, it was baby duty for me. No break! If Dustin were home, I would have burst through the door, whipped up a shake, and headed to the bathroom to soaked in the bath. when I got home Saturday I had to relieve my Mom and he was ready for his nap (which was like pulling teeth to get him down-after dealing with him falling asleep in my arms, and waking up as I was transferring him to his crib about 2 dozen times over and over until I decided to let him work it out and take his nap. He cried for longer than I would care to share, then I gave him some Motrin and he was a happy little guy. Teething is not his cup of tea-he isn't good at it at all...there are some babies who can cut teeth without hardly whining while my son is crawling the walls in pain.) anyway. I was frazzled to say the least and really needed a break. My head ache was beginning to make me crazy, so I made some food and drank some water. I almost always get head aches after long runs. It was a rough day to say the least....until we met up with Julie!

We had lunch with one of my oldest friends Julie, and it was a lovely break.

She fed Conrad a lemon:
and wanted to buy him an ice cream cone:
and then he gave her some kisses:
It really wasn't the amazing weekend of freedom i was thinking it would be. I fell asleep before nine every night and was too exhausted to enjoy my raunchy reality TV shows. Taking care of a baby all by yourself is hard work! I really respect the single moms out there and I REALLY can't thank my husband enough for all the help he gives me.
Conrad is munching on a huge piece of mozzarella in this photo
if you were wondering what he had in his little hands.

Friday, February 19

Weekly Surf:

A Friday Kiss for you:
This weekend I will be baby proofing. Our son has gained a new sense of Independence now that he is walking along furniture, standing unassisted, and taking baby steps to walking. He is getting into everything these days which is keeping me on my toes. If I'm doing laundry in the hallway, I might find my shadow close by in the bathroom splashing in the toilet bowl-which has become his favorite "toy." (him play in the toilet totally grosses me out, but he's a boy and boys like to be gross....)
Baths these days are more complicated than they used to be now that he can stand and refuses to take his bath sitting down. He squints his eyes in anger and wrinkles his nose, protesting and squealing, throwing himself backwards and yelling at me if i try to sit him on his butt. One night this week the battle was too much, me sitting him on his butt over and over until I took him out of the bath without ever bathing him, and that was the end of that.
We're quickly learning that if anything is left out at his level, it becomes his. So if my tea cup and tea bag are left on the coffee table, he has no problem inspecting the tea, exploring the water and tearing the bag in half until green tea is all over his lips, (and smashed into my rug!) Like I said, baby proofing is in full effect.
(And yes, I almost always have a camera ready to capture my sons every move. Especially now as he's growing, and his personality is coming out more and more. This is such a fun age. I hope you don't mind seeing his face so much.)

A few links you might enjoy:

Birds nest loveliness

How did I not know about this AMAZING bag until now?

The perfect gift for a doctor

this song & this song are on my running mix
They make me super happy!

kids would LOVE these at a birthday party

{Have a blessed weekend!}

Tuesday, February 16

Give-a-way Winner:


And the winner of the pretty in pink give a way is:


{Thank you again Jessica for crafting such awesomely-pretty things}

(for all of my readers in the Vegas area, or those who plan to visit in the near future,
I will be giving a way a photography session, so stop back in the next few days for details.)

And just for good measure,
I figured since bubbles stuck to his head made me smile,
it might make you smile too.

Friday, February 12

Weekly Surf: V-Day Edition

Thanks for all of your wonderful V-Day stories.
It was fun to hear how you all show your love.
{image via google images}


nothing says romance like a hot red swim suit
(I must own her swim suit. It is utterly fabulous!)

your guild to dating a geek

Tell him "I LOVE YOU"

making ice cream in a bag together
sounds like a lot of fun to me

I'm fascinated with lomography wedding photos
{I will never shoot a wedding without my Diana again}


gorgeous pink booties

a movie for us to watch
(comes out march 20...hint hint!)

One of my fav fashionista's is sure to give you inspiration
on your date night outfit!

We're playing it low key this year celebrating our love with a game night with friends & cookin' some dinner at home. We're taking Dustin some lunch to work today. It should be fun. Dustin's only V-Day request: to be the photographer for a chance and have his two loves in front of the Mamiya for a little photo session. I think capturing love is an antiquate gift.

Hope you all have a wonderful V-Day.

My little water baby


Crazy eyes:
Goofy face:
wet little hairs:
tooth brush man:
Rebellious little stander!
It's no secret I love capturing the silly little moments of my baby boy.
It's hard to keep him sitting in the bath these days. He's becoming so independent.

Wednesday, February 10

Pretty In Pink Give-a-way


So since it's February and love is in the air, I would like to pass along an
adorable knitted flower to my lovely readers.

I have a few of these pretties myself that I love to clip onto a sweater,
or clip into messy-curly hair!

Allow me to model them for your viewing pleasure....

To enter to win, simply leave a comment telling either:
* your ideal date night
* what makes your Valentine so sweet
* the sweetest Valentines day gift you've either received or given
* your plans for this coming Valentines day
*and if you think V-Day was created by the card companies
{to make millions off of us poor romantic saps}
and you think it's super lame, here's your platform to say that as well!

The winner will be chosen at random on Monday morning!

I also own this navy and olive colored flower that is a little larger.
I LOVE it!
Go snag you a few goodies from her Etsy Shop!

Tuesday, February 9

Weekly Surf: Summer must haves

What reminds me of summer: Red Stripe beer, Fleet Wood Mac playing on my then-handsome- boyfriend's record player, peppermint lotion, & the way sun screen makes my mouth water. Also, Jamaica (the place we spent our honeymoon) reminds me of summer:
Every year we celebrate our anniversary by sipping that wonderful Jamaican beer.
Here we are the summer I became pregnant-Here we are, 3 years married.
(Here he is squinting in the sun because he refuses to wear sun glasses and it drives me NUTS!
He also refuses to read with adequate lighting and that ALSO drives me NUTS.
I'm CONSTANTLY flicking lights on when I catch him in the dark reading....Oh-married life!)

So I'm getting pretty excited that summer is just right around the corner.
Maybe I'm jumping the gun with a post about summer essentials,
but I really can't wait to bust out the skirts and tanks!

I've already got one in my closet that I bought a few weeks ago
that I'm dying to wear.






{To reward myself for a job well-ran, I made Dustin and I some tiny ice cream sandwiches that were so sweet I about threw up after devouring them. BUT, girls who want to wear cute swim suits don't gorge their faces on cupcakes, ice cream sandwiches & large take out orders of Tiramisu the week before their marathon! (Chelsea!) All I can think about is sugar! I need to be stopped, I'm out of control!}

Wish me luck tomorrow.
& have a wonderful weekend.

PS: I love you Dustin.

Monday, February 8

When your husband surprises you



with a love note strategically placed underneath the babies nightly bottle and tells you he has to run out real quick while you're giving the baby a bath, you know he's got something up his very long sleeve....that something being Creme Brulee with strawberries and dark chocolate shavings.......

Oh my Gawd, I think I just went into a diabetic coma.... YUM!
Lately, I've been finding little scraps of paper hidden in places that he knew I would be looking. like the babies shoes, and I have to say, these little sentiments are bringing out my competitive side. Now I'm thinking of how I can one up this tricky romantic man of mine. How can I out do his sweet nothings? As I rocked the baby to sleep I had ideas swirling in my head.

But mostly, I'm awe struck with this perma-smile plastered on my face, excited that
romance is alive!
(It's amazing how hot a man can look wearing an oven mitt ....)

Mirror Mirror on the Wall....



Whose the craziest baby of them all?


Yes, It's true, some mornings we jam out to Radiohead in the office while the cool morning breeze gusts through the window that points out towards the street where far in the distance the sun rises. On mornings like this one, where you woke at 4:35, we started our day early together. Yes, some mornings us "early birds" get to watch the sun rise over those mountains, pinks colliding with yellows as the orange stings our eyes absorbing both colors to our amazement.

It's not uncommon around here to find your mom sprawled out on the floor snapping away like a contortionist to get the perfect angle, holding my breath as the light catches your face, I hurry to snap as many as I can before the sun fully rises and steals this
perfectly grey-gloomy morning light.

But you, you make these dark circles under my eyes, the crusty goo of tired eyes and long nights rocking your sick-little-coughing-head-all-better, well worth it.

I thanked God again for the billionth time for these precious precious moments with you.

I am the one who stays in jammies all day watching Sponge Bob with you while you cough up a lung. I'm the one who repeats "Mama's here, Mama's here!" when I hear your cry from the monitor and race into your room when you need a snuggle in the middle of your nap.

We're lucky, me and you!